50 Survival School Life Hacks Keep Kids Busy and Moms Happy

March 20, 2020 3,306 Views

Summary

Mary Ellen has practical tips and a house full of fun activities to keep you and the kids on top when circumstances threaten to turn your world upside down.

One of the most often asked questions of both counselors and on social media is “how to catch up” when something derails the homeschooling for any length of time.

It worries mothers to no end that each day a math lesson is missed that they fall further and further “behind” and that their child will suffer because of the delay in getting the work done.

It always makes us feel bad that moms, going through bouts of illness or family situations, place the added burden of worrying about long division or sentence diagramming lessons on themselves.

“To everything, there is a season and a time to every purpose” Eccles. 3:1

Your purpose in a particularly challenging time may not be to worry about these things, (as Martha did). Such matters will always be with us but our responsibility is to ask God what He needs of us at this time. What He requires might very well be to shelve the books and minister to the needs of those around us.

Each year there is a new strain of flu virus, a new stomach ailment, a grandparent that needs more help and maybe a pregnancy, which is certainly the most joyful of situations but still very taxing. This year the challenge is more far-reaching and frightening.

We are faced with the potential for grave illness, unemployment, and food shortages. Perhaps you are already experiencing these situations, I know I am.

The Secret About Control

Homeschool families usually have a lot of control in their days, but now, each day brings a different set of circumstances, so, like the rest of the world, we are faced with uncertainty.

You may not be at all in control of the circumstances you are placed in, but you can control the way you respond. That phrase, “when mom isn’t happy, nobody is happy,” is true. We set the tone, and the tone can be stressed and panicky or peaceful and accommodating.

Since the restrictions following the outbreak of the Coronavirus, you may have a lot more people in the house, working from home, temporarily unemployed, or just anxious. This can make it extremely difficult to have a productive school day.

When going through a difficult season, there are some practical things you can do to ease the burden and help keep you feeling in control.

The first one is, of course, to pray and ask God to guide your day. You will find that He really does respond in a very concrete way to these requests, and suddenly you will be in no doubt about what your priority should be for that day.

The next thing is to call Seton and speak to a counselor.

Let them know what is going on and ask for what you need. Do you need an extension for the year? Suggestions about organizing your workload? Are there assignments that you can prioritize over others? Ask all the questions.

You can also ask for a call back from myself or Ginny Seufrett. Both of us have been at this a while and would be happy to advise you.

Another thing is to just keep up with the three R’s. Reading, Religion, and aRithmatic. Those are the subjects that most people find difficult to catch up with once they take some time off. Even fifteen minutes a day will make returning to a normal schedule less difficult.

Make use of the older people in the house who might find themselves at a loose end right now. They can take over teaching history or science for you. Reading aloud or cooking lunch would help. Let them pitch in in all the ways that feel like too much for you right now.

Think outside of the box when situating people. I have four extra people working in the house right now, all needing space and wifi. We invested in a wifi extender, set up a few folding tables, and started a second coffee pot.

If you have people with not much to do or who are missing their friends and activities, and there is only so much reading a person can do, then here are a few ideas to keep busy.